I am done. I am so done

I am done, so done with trying with people who put simply don't give a shit. I don't understand why people just don't do the adult thing and say 'we're over' or let you know you wont be having further contact. I'm going to keep this as vague as I can but put simply

   
It's different though, if it was a prospective partner and they ignore you, I personally find that a lot easier. It's different if its a friend though, especially ones that you spent a great deal of time with, text back and fro. And obviously with people going to different unis I get why you wouldn't be in touch like before. what I don't get is silence and secrecy. I had some friends whom we were so close for so many years that we literally knew everything about each other and made big decisions together. Couple months go by and silence? I mean ignoring calls and texts. We were once best friends, but now we're just strangers with memories. Sometimes I ignore everyone, turn of facebook chat then see who actually makes an effort. Surprisingly people who I didn't expect did, and others I expected didn't. But life goes on.


I don't want this to be completely depressing so i'll look at an alternative view point too. There are other mates, who you see so rarely (i'm talking like once a year) but every minute you spend with them is priceless. I thank God that I have a friend who I've known since the age of 4, we've been neighbours for 3 years. After that we've always been in opposite sides of the country,  not even communicating for years sometimes because we didn't have the means. But yh now we have these bets (not involving money ofc that would be haram) who would be the cooler aunt, who would dress their kids better etc. The reason for that anecdote was to show that distance is only an issue if you make it an issue.

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